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It offers a blunt, evidence-heavy case that organized violence between groups of men shaped human intelligence, cooperation and the status anxiety people still carry.
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David Geary, author of The Origin of Mind and now at work on its second edition, tells Chris Williamson that conflict between groups is the missing piece in most accounts of human evolution. The story starts with brain growth from the australopithecines through Homo habilis to Homo erectus about 1.8 million years ago. Better tools and food meant bigger populations, more competition for resources and pushes into neighbouring territory, and areas with more Homo species saw more of them go extinct. Geary's evidence is the archaeological record of violence and a genetic signal: around 5,000 to 7,000 years ago most male lineages vanished, leaving roughly 17 female ancestors for every male one.
The engine, in Geary's account, is the male kin coalition. Because men stayed in their birth group while women moved out, related men could fight together, and weapons and organization kept raising the stakes. Reproductive skew among men, already about three times higher than among women in hunter-gatherer groups, grew to around a hundredfold in early empires. Women competed differently, through social networks and quieter relational tactics, since escalating a fight carried far higher costs for a pregnant or nursing mother. Geary sees war as the main driver of civilization and links the same pressures to the brain networks that let people simulate the future and rehearse plans.
The last stretch turns these ideas on modern life. Geary explains status anxiety as an old buffer against famine and invasion that safe societies have not switched off, reads today's gender debates at work through the lens of male hierarchies, and casts the urge for control as a basic motive. Williamson asks whether Elon Musk or Mick Jagger would have thrived in the Stone Age. Geary closes by urging parents to step back from status contests over their children.
Researcher of human evolution and sex differences, author of The Origin of Mind, which is being rewritten as a second edition for the American Psychological Association. Writes about the work on the Geary Substack.
David Geary told Chris Williamson that better tools and food, from Homo erectus about 1.8 million years ago onward, grew populations and sharpened competition for resources. Groups pushed into rivals' territory, violence rose, and competing Homo species went extinct. Geary argues this between-group conflict, led by coalitions of related men, drove brain expansion, technology and ever larger cooperative societies.
David Geary says Y-chromosome and mitochondrial DNA show that around 5,000 to 7,000 years ago humans had about 17 female ancestors for every male one. Disease or famine would have hit both sexes, so Geary argues the pattern requires organized violence aimed at men: related male groups with better weapons wiped out rival men and usually kept the women.
David Geary says male competition is closer to zero-sum: in hunter-gatherer groups reproductive variation among men is about three times that among women, and in early empires it reached roughly a hundredfold. Women compete too, but through social networks and relational aggression rather than lethal fights, because a pregnant or nursing woman risks far more by escalating.
Yes. David Geary told Chris Williamson that war was the primary driver of building civilizations. Nomadic raiders attacking farming communities pushed both sides to organize larger groups and new technology, and growing societies then needed weapon makers, farmers and traders. Geary argues intense cooperation among strangers and intense conflict are two sides of the same coin.
David Geary links it to two brain systems, the default mode network and the frontal-parietal network, which are far better connected in humans than in chimpanzees or macaques. The first lets people picture a desired future, usually one with higher status. The second solves the gap between that picture and the present, letting people rehearse plans and social strategies before trying them.
David Geary says a human baby born with a brain as mature as a newborn chimpanzee's would need close to two years of gestation. Instead infants arrive early and dependent, then spend a long childhood learning to hunt, forage and make tools, with some skills not mastered until around 30. Geary and Mark Flynn argued 25 years ago that paternal care and protection trace back to gorilla-like australopithecine families.
David Geary says status and survival were tightly linked for most of history: higher-ranking people and their children were likelier to survive plagues, famines and raids, which struck without warning. That made it adaptive to keep climbing as a buffer. Most Westerners now live safe, comfortable lives, but Geary says many cannot switch the drive off, which fuels social comparison and showing off online.
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0:00Why is the human mind so unique or interesting? Yeah, great question. We are a highly unusual species in many, many ways in terms of overall brain size, in terms of the ability to learn novel things like reading, writing, inventing, mathematics. Self-awareness is probably much more highly developed in us than in any other species. So there's a whole variety of cognitive ability, social competencies that far outstrip anything else that we see in the natural world. Why? Why did humans become so much smarter than every other species? Yeah, that's a great question. That's the topic of one of my earlier books, The Origin of Mind, which I'm now writing a second edition of, and so re-reviewing all of the literature on brain expansion and a variety of other things.
1:08I started about four or five million years ago with what are called the australopithecines. So that would include Lucy there and looking at their brain size, which was a little bit bigger than chimpanzees. And they were around for several million years. And we see kind of a gradual increase in brain volume during that time. So, you know, not a lot going on, probably a little bit more sophisticated than chimps, as I said. What was interesting is that a lot of these australopithecine species emerged and there's a sister genus paranthropus that emerged as well so there's a lot of things going on they're probably all living in somewhat different ecologies that's important because you know the more variety you
2:00have the better chances that one of them is going to break from the pack and evolve into something different. And that happened probably a little over 2 million years ago, maybe 2.5 million years ago or so, with the emergence of the genus Homo, with Homo habilis, habilis, the tool maker sort of individual. So we saw a jump in brain volume there. Some indication of some reorganization of parts of the brain called the parietal cortex involved in things like working memory and tool construction and so forth. I think the real important jump emerged about 1.8, 1.9 million years ago or so forth with the emergence of Homo erectus. In there, we see larger body size. We see more brain expansion, more expansion of these areas involved in tool construction and a variety of other things.
3:09We also saw that these species, these individuals, these species were beginning to expand in Africa. Expansion follows from, you know, you got the tools, you got a better ability to extract resources from the ecology, you're better at hunting, cooking emerged, you know, along the way with later members of these species. All of this increases the amount of calories, resources available to the group, which decreases mortality rates and increases population size. You get population expansions with these technological advances, and that creates a conflict dynamic. You know, you get bigger populations, you get fewer resources per capita, you get within-group competition. One way to deal with that is to expand into the territory of other groups, which appears to be
4:12what happened with H. erectus, and so they're moving into other groups. Archaeological data suggests increased conflict during that time between group conflict and violence. In fact, when we look at extinction probabilities in Homo species, I should set aside there's at least eight of them at one point. The more Homo species that were around in an area, the higher the probability that one or several of them would go extinct so i think we have the technological advances the uh population expansion with increase within group competition increase between group competition and the elimination of competitor species the slow elimination of competitors i think i think the term is fucking chaos that's what it sounds like yeah sounds like yeah yeah yeah
5:09yeah it it was a shit show how's that yeah yeah it it it was um if it was violent and and i'll i'll get to that. They eventually expanded actually quite a while ago, about 1.8 million years ago, out of Africa and then eventually Asia, then Europe. So they really expanded around probably displacing a lot of other primate species in the process. Eventually we get to humans, and I'm skipping a few points here. Get to humans, and they had a couple of attempts to expand out of Africa, but didn't quite make it. Probably the Neanderthals put them in check, and eventually they moved into Eurasia about 60,000 years ago. Eventually displaced Neanderthals, I think replaced Neanderthals. There's some interbreeding and stuff, but the archaeological record suggests that there was a lot of violence as well.
6:26So we have a couple of things here. One is organized coalitional competition. I'm arguing in the book and in my, I've got a couple of pieces on this in my sub stack, that this was driven by men, by males. Male kin-based coalitions was the start of it. In humans and chimpanzees, bonobos, and apparently our ancestors, men stayed in the birth group. Women migrated out to avoid inbreeding. When you have the one sex that stays in the birth group, they have an increased chance of forming coalitions, integrating into coordinated social groups for collective action. So we see that with the males. So I think that was, uh, the males were pushing the expansions and then you add the technological, um, changes with the, uh, tools, tool construction driven by males as well. A lot
7:35of these tools, some of them for hunting or doing, you know, uh, things related to agriculture, but a lot of them are just weapons. They were organized to expand their territory. And we see that evidence in the archaeological data. We see it in the population genetic data, where we look at the number of individuals who were our male ancestors and our female ancestors. You can do that by looking at the Y chromosome, for example, which is just passed down from male to male, or the mitochondrial DNA, which is involved in intracellular energy production. It just goes from female to female lineages. So you can track female lineages and male lineages. And the process that almost certainly began with Homo erectus continued up through human prehistory
8:35and continues well beyond that. So around 7,000 years ago or so after the early emergence of agriculture, we began to see population expansions, agricultural communities moving into hunter-gatherer areas. At one point, we had 17 female relatives for every one male relative. Yeah, there was this massive drop-off in male diversity, lineage diversity, like 5,000 to 7,000 years ago. What happened? That was a massive drop-off on that, where most male lineages disappeared throughout the world, you know, in various places. So, and that data suggests that it was, and it has to be because it's a Y chromosome, it has to be male kin groups that are driving that. Otherwise it'd be, you'd have more variation.
9:42Can you simplify that a little bit? Explain what you mean there. Yeah. So if you have an organized male kin group with technology, weapons, and so forth that is expanding out, they're all going to have the same or very similar fathers, sons, uncles, and so forth. They're all going to have very similar Y chromosomes or identical Y chromosomes. They expand into another group, wipe that group out, that other group's Y chromosome. You mean wipe the other group of men out, not wipe the entire other tribe out, presumably keep the women? Usually keep the women. Sometimes you get rid of them too. It just depends. The archeological stuff is variable. If you're going to get rid of anybody, it's the men.
10:31So you take out the men, their white lineage is gone. I mean, it's erased from history. And the only way you could get the pattern of the 17 to 1 ratio is intense organized violence. That's just what must have happened. The violence must have discriminated to victimize men, particularly though, right? Or else you would have just had a total population that would have dropped down and it would have been 17 times fewer people overall, but it's not. It's 17 times fewer men than there are women. That's right. So, um, you know, the other possibility for population crashes is disease, famine, so forth. It would be a disease and famine that only affected men. Right. Right. Yeah. If it was disease and famine, the women would have been severely affected as well, probably as affected as men. So whatever happened, it was specific to men. And, you know, and when that of human history and ancestral evolutionary history, we've had relatively stable numbers of male-female split.
11:50And then you have this incredibly novel sex ratio change. What do you think that caused to... Because that has to have some cultural, sociological repercussions that stick about for a good while, but it's not going to be easy to rebalance that. It's going to very much put the power reproductively into the hands of the few men that are still around. Right. Yeah. And that's exactly what happened. So we can step back a little bit and look at male-male competition among primates. And when males are highly competitive among primates, males are bigger than females. They're more aggressive than females, and there's more reproductive skew. So the more dominant males reproduce disproportionately, you know, to their numbers than less dominant males and so you get
12:47their y chromosome you know increasing in frequency across generations and that that occurs in you know chimpanzees mandrills a lot of other primates almost certainly occurs does occur in hunter-gatherer societies it's kind of people talk about equality there and often there's equality of material resources because nobody has much but there's inequality in terms of hunting competencies you know physical skills, being a warrior, whatever. Reproductive variation is there, especially among men, where the top 10, 20% disproportionately reproduce. So the basic pattern has been there for millions and millions of years, for sure. If we look at the australopithecines, the males are 50% to 100% bigger than the females,
13:46indicating very intense male-male competition and reproductive skew. So what we're talking about here with the elimination of all these male lineages is just a continuation of the same pattern, but amplified in intensity through coal coalitional based coalitional male kin-based competition aided by um technology weapons and better social organization right so is the suggestion that there would have been some groups of some tribes some groups of males who accessed coordination skill tactics weapons um at a rate that basically gave them an unfair advantage on the battlefield and these groups of men were able to move across the planet pretty quickly and wipe out other potentially competitive males. So previously, when we think about chimps,
14:53yes, sometimes there are intergroup conflicts, but a lot of the time it's intragroup conflicts. It's the alpha currently being taken down by number two, three, and four. And this is a roving bands of males, kinship-based males with better tactics than their competitors. And then consistently just leveling up over and over again, the better tactics, the better weapons, meeting poorer tactics, poorer weapons, wipe them out, keep the women, mate with the women, continue, just rinse and repeat. It's like a proto-Gghis khan right right uh it's an evolutionary arms race driven by male coalitional competition and technological advantages so on on my sub stack um cases and it will be in the book. It will be more elaborated in my book when it eventually gets done. I talked about the Yamnaya expansion from...
15:50What is that? the Caucasus, they had wagons, horses, and other, a lot of weapons, technological advantages, and they moved into Central and then eventually Northern Europe and displaced all the hunter-gatherer groups. And there's some evidence that they did reproduce with some of the women there. So some interbreeding, but a lot of displacement as well. And if we look at ancient history and we look at ancient DNA, which is now available, there is a mix of interbreeding and just outright population replacement. One group of men replacing another group of men. Yeah, that's interesting. So I'm kind of fascinated by whether male-male competition is much more zero-sum because historically some men reproduced enormously while others sort of didn't reproduce at all.
16:59The difference between male competition and female competition ancestrally. Yeah, yeah, that's absolutely critical. In hunter-gatherer societies, the variation or reproductive skew, however you want to talk about it among men, is about three times higher than it is among women. So meaning that there are more men who have a lot of kids and a lot of men who don't reproduce at all. Most women will have babies, but some are more successful at keeping them alive, or they have one or two more, whatever. So there's some variation among women, but much more among men. Now that three-fold variation in reproductive skew was amplified to about a hundredfold difference when we move into early empires. So, you know, in China, India, Eurasia, and so forth. So the dominant men in their coalition had many, many wives, killed off competitors or-
18:04What sort of time zone are we talking about? What years are this? Well, so probably the crash of all the Y lineage, the male lineage is 5,000, 7,000 years ago, around then, was probably part of that pattern. But we don't have a historical record of that. But then when we move into um the you know the empire building we're looking about four million years ago or four thousand years ago or so so fairly recent continuing into the bronze age and um iron age And then of course you get Genghis Khan who had 800 kids or so. How much of modern male ambition do you think is a legacy of this asymmetry of reproductive lottery? Yeah, I think most of it is, if not all of it. There are studies of, you know, we have the population genetic data showing that, you know, some males reproduce much more than others.
19:11So obviously there's intense competition there. If you look at traditional hunter-gatherer pastoral societies today, and even modern societies, there is a consistent relation between men's cultural success, being good at whatever is important in that culture, and their marriage prospects, number of children, and so forth. It's a very, very consistent relation. It is clear that men who are status-driven, focused, and are successful in those endeavors reproduce more than other men. Yeah, it's kind of fascinating to think that men's obsession with status and achievement and influence can just ultimately be traced back to reproductive competition. Right, right. That is what it is. And that is what it is in these other primates where you get a lot
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21:18what's happening ancestrally, but how does female competition and male competition differ? Yeah, great question. They're definitely not passive actors. So the model I'm building is that basically male coalitional violence, initially kin-based and then kind of expanding out to, say, a shared language. Everybody that speaks language X kind of will form together under periods of stress. And then ideological stuff like religion or whatever ideology it is as a way of creating larger and larger groups. These male coalitions with technological advances, which is driven by conflict. So if you look at the Ukrainian war now, all sorts of advances in drone, use of drones, robots and so as societies expand, you get different cultural niches in there.
22:31You get a political class, military class, an ideological class, and then an entrepreneurial class in there generally. So you get different niches to compete. And men are building these institutions, coalitions of men, and societies. Women are embedded within these institutions, and their evolved strategy is to create kind of a social network within these groups that provides them social support and allows them to extract resources, basically, from the group. That would be from the husband or other folks that they're connected to. So they're very good at working individual relationships, knowing all of, you know, who's friends with who, who is, um, you know, a coalitional partner with this other
23:31person who's in a conflict or whatever, using all of this information to kind of manipulate and, um, improve their own status within the group and also promote the well-being and status of their um children so in in one of my sub stacks i uh talk about the uh manipulations and all of the drama i guess that happens in uh like harem settings where you have a an emperor that has multiple wives or concubines or whatever. Lots of drama going on behind the scenes, trying to move their sons into positions where they'll become emperor or high official or whatever. It's all very subtle, typically called relational aggression. But it is active, for sure, and has consequences. The women who are good at that sort of thing typically had healthier kids and are more likely to move their
24:35kids into positions that would allow them to be successful in adulthood. So it's not building institutions, it is working the dynamics within them. Why was it not female-female coalitions roving around and attacking other groups? Yeah, and that's a great question because if we look at primates, old world primate species, kind of Africa, Asia, there are actually more primate species where females stay in their birth group and males take off. And so you have more opportunity for female coalitions to emerge because it's easier among kin. And in fact, in a lot of these species, there are female coalitions. They do organize along mothers, aunts, grandmas, and all that to protect important food sources like fruit trees or whatever the case might be.
25:30So we definitely do see coalitional competition among females. One of the differences is that, as you mentioned before, male-male competition is more of a zero-sum game. Female-female competition is there, but it's lower intensity. They don't kill each other, and they can't really escalate it if they're breastfeeding or they're pregnant or whatever. And the cost-benefit trade-offs are different. If you are female and you're pregnant and you get into a massive fight, you're risking an abortion or injury or death or whatever. But for a guy, he's a low status guy, middle status guy. If he doesn't really push the envelope as much as he can, he's out of the gene pool. And so the trade-offs are, as you said and I said,
26:26much more zero-sum for male, particularly when you get a polygynous system. How much do you think war, we can attribute to war, the building of civilization? I think war was the primary driver of the building of civilizations. Other people have said that as well, that you get these coalitions that when you get the between-group stuff, you get advantages to larger and larger groups there. There, so nomadic raiders invading agricultural communities was a common dynamic before the emergence of empires. unite better organized to get larger groups to be competitive and you have this this uh arms race situation where both sides are ramping up and developing new technologies and so forth and as you expand um societies you know not all of the guys can be in the military, you need weapons makers, you need people to do the harvest, you need entrepreneurs for markets, you have an economic diversification of society.
27:57But the stressor for the building of these large groups to begin with was between group competition. Mm-hmm. Yeah, I think you say that intense cooperation and intense conflict are sort of two sides of the same coin. What do you mean by that? Right. So, yeah, a lot of social scientists don't like to hear that we're a violent species. They just, it's kind of like off the table for them, which means they'll never fully understand our evolution. And they focus on the ultra cooperative side of people. People are intensely cooperative. I mean, we live in large cities, a lot of us, large societies, multiple layers of organization. You can drive down the street and nobody's going to do anything to you.
28:49Go to a shopping center, you're safe and so forth. And different people are doing different things, amazingly cooperative amongst non-relatives. And most other species of cooperation is typically among kin. And the question is, so how do we get there? And my argument is, well, what are the benefits to cooperation in large groups? And the primary benefit is defensive or offensive in terms of competing with other groups. Now, the competition doesn't need to be violent. It could eventually merge into trade wars or other ways of competing across groups. But I think violence was the driver, the initial driver. It's the other side. More violence, more push for large-scale cooperation. Yeah. I'm trying to work out why civility is a thing at all if competition and prestige are our main human
29:45drivers i don't understand why social hierarchies and monarchies would form why isn't it just chaos all the time right right yeah in in yeah there's an interesting pattern pattern there with the formation of um you know early polities like like nation state you know states and then larger empires. A lot of conflict in the beginning when a hierarchy is established finally, a group of males and their kin and their supporters and so forth have kind of taken control of society and organized that, they then develop systems for suppressing in-group competition and, of course, suppressing people who want to displace them. So you have a lot of violence at first and then suppression of that once the hierarchy is established. And eventually
30:42people get tired of that and there's revolts and so forth or externally displaced or whatever. But the formation of a hierarchy does suppress in-group violence. If conflict helped to produce intelligence and cooperation, technological progress and stuff, what happens when humans become substantially more peaceful? What happens? I think they get bored and they start attacking each other on social media. You got cancel culture. So a lot of the aggression and manipulation and social status driving is still there. It's just digital or a lot of the violence part of it is stripped out. But the motivation to be right and to have social influence and move up whatever hierarchy is important to you is still there. It's just
31:40expressed in a different way. Why do you think humans evolved such a extraordinary capacity to imagine the future right so part of the process of this between group competition and also kind of the within group um stuff we see uh the evolutionary elaboration of a number of brain systems. So we can look at that by looking at macaque brains and chimp brains and human brains, and then look at the organization of some of these large-scale brain networks. Two critical ones. One is the default mode network. The other is the frontal parietal network. And in both of these, they're there in, you know, the monkeys, apes, and people. But for people, they're much more integrated with other systems. And the white matter tracks of connectivity from the front
32:42of the brain to the back of the brain, where of the work goes on is much more elaborated in chimpanzees and macaques, for example, and much more elaborated in humans than in chimpanzees. And some of these areas are evolutionary hotspots, meaning there's been a lot of genetic changes in them. So, so the default mode network is the ability to, um, generate, uh, you know, a mental simulation of something going on in the world. So if you just kick back, you know, it's Saturday, you're relaxing, not thinking about anything intense, your default mode network is going to kick in and you've got some daydreaming sort of things there. Usually self-referential images and thinking about stuff that is important to you.
33:36So that's kind of the mental model kind of aspect telling you what's important to you. What's important in human evolution, since we have these better connections between the front and the back, we can take that system and generate images ourself. Instead of just reliving past stuff, we can take that system and generate a future state. So it's like, where do we want to be five years from now? So in my classes, I talk about the system. And when people fantasize about things, you could fantasize, well, I'm homeless. Yeah, I don't have any rent to pay. I don't have to worry about paying the gas bill or those sorts of things. But people don't do that. They fantasize about being higher status, having a better job, having a bigger house, whatever it is, having luxury food, living in a
34:35high status, cool environment, and so forth. They're thinking about things that would enhance their social status. And historically, gaining those things would have reduced their mortality risks and reduced the mortality risk of their children. So we get these models of, you know, this is where I want to be in X number of years or months or whatever. And this is where I am now. And now we kick in the rational problem solving frontal parietal system can now think about, okay, what can I do to reduce the gap between these? You know, I go to school for four years and get an engineering degree, get a good job or something like that. So you're thinking ahead and problem solving and, you know, trying to figure out how to get where you want to be. System also works with more intimate dynamics. It's like, okay, I want to get person A to do this for me. And I know this person pretty well. And I know that if I try strategy one, he or she is going to reject. It's not going to happen. Strategy two might work
35:47sometimes. And this is how I would do it. So you rehearse the whole thing in your head and tweak it before you actually try it out in the real world. And so you're able to create various scenarios of the future, figure out different approaches to make the future happen the way you want it to happen. And you can all do that without, you know, kind of imagine scenarios before they happen and mentally try out things to get people, other people to do what you want. And I would think anybody who has good abilities in that area are going to have a real advantage over folks that really can't think too far into the future. Somewhere along the way, low energy just gets accepted as a part of getting older. Turns out there's a reason for that. As we age, our mitochondria, the parts of
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38:06Yeah. Um, yeah, it probably depends on the animal, you know, if you're a good gazelle and a pack of lions is parallel walking with you, probably you're not too happy, but, um, yeah, I, I think, you know, your dog and cat, they're not going to have the same self-awareness as you, as you're going to have, they're not going to have the same self-awareness as you're going to have. They're not going to be evaluating themselves relative to other dogs and cats. And, you know, in a good context, they don't really need to think about moving up in the status hierarchy or maintaining their position in the status hierarchy. So, you know, in a large dynamic social system, there's always movement going on.
38:49You always have to, you know, try to move up or maintain or, you know, anticipate potential conflicts or whatever. And so, yeah, I think that that does occupy people more than it would, say, a dog. Yeah. So when it comes to childhoods and sort of how human babies came about, I've listened to some really interesting stuff around how fathers saved the human civilization because babies' heads were getting so big. There was this sort of battle between brain size and mother's hip width and how much they can locomote throughout their lives and stuff, which I think is kind of endlessly fascinating. I also had a conversation recently about if humans become Martians, if humans move to Mars, bone density is going to be way lower, which means that women's hips are not going
39:43to be able to deal with natural births in the way that they could. So almost all children are going to be born through C-section if we move into space, lower bone density, higher risk of tearing and horrible fractures and stuff during pregnancy or through giving birth. But then as soon as you go to C-section, you no longer have the constraint on baby's heads anymore. So now we've maybe had this brief window in human history, hominin history, heads get bigger, brains get bigger, heads get bigger, brains get bigger, heads stay the same size. They actually got probably a bit too big for a while. A lot of women died in childbirth. We pull it back. Those ones aren't going to continue. We keep it the same. We keep it the same, and then we move to Mars, and then it's just off to the races again.
40:26Yeah, yeah. Yeah, if the same competitive dynamics that initially kind of pushed the expansion of brain size continued on Mars, then yeah, that's what would happen. What's unique about human children and the way that we develop as babies and infants? Yeah, so a number of things there. And I can circle in with dads. So Mark Flynn and I argued 25 years ago now that our Australopithecine ancestors were more like gorillas. Single male harems, a few females in the offspring where males and females form long-term relationships. The males at least hang around and play with the offspring. And most importantly, they protect them. So you have the germ of a human family there and human paternal investment from that perspective that goes back five million years or more,
41:28you get a human gatherer group when the males start coordinating together. Then you have multiple of these kind of male-centered families in the group. But moving forward, as brain size increased, as humans got better at tool construction, hunting, extracting resources from the environment, there was, you know, part of the brain expansion was due to that type of thing. And so of course, the, you course, the birth canal needs to be larger for one. The other thing is that kids are born premature. So if you were to take gestation time for a human baby and say, well, we're going to stretch that out until the infant's brain is just as mature as, say, a chimpanzee infant's brain. The gestation period would have to be almost two years, and nobody wants to birth a two-year-old.
42:44So, yeah, so they're born premature in a sense, and so they're much more dependent on care. They have a longer growth period for brain and other things. But as humans got better at getting stuff out of the ecology, this also meant that kids had to learn how to make tools, how to hunt, how to forage, and so forth. And studies of hunter-gatherer groups suggest that it takes a long time to become a skilled hunter or skilled at foraging or whatever needs to be done in a traditional group or some early farming types of things. So for some things, they may not be experts until they're 30 or so. So you need this delayed period of basically learning how to be successful in whatever cultural niche that you're in. Yeah. Yeah. I am. I'm kind of fascinated by
43:38how many of the adaptations that we see among humans are done in an attempt to compensate for how neotenous and useless we are as children. Looking sort of across this entire history, what is the part of modern human behavior that makes the least sense until you understand our history, in your opinion opinion that makes the least sense yeah what's this what's the thing that an ancestral perspective intergroup conflict and the pressures and stuff what does that explain best in the way that people behave in the modern world yeah so the um well the patriarchy i guess you know we hear a lot about that and a lot of debate about it. But basically, my argument is that, well, yeah, it's real. The male kin-based coalitions came together, fought for probably since Ereptus emerged 1.7, 1.8 million years ago. So it's been going on for a long time.
44:48They build institutions, they build cultures. And therefore, we would expect that males will dominate in these institutions and be motivated to dominate in these institutions. And also have the capacities, predisposition, capability to dominate as well. Right. And domination in there means you have social skills, you have the ability to organize large numbers of other individuals, mostly men, to engage in collective action that increases the group's competitive ability. You can see that militarily, obviously, but also any corporation, any other football team, whatever the coordinated behavior of the individuals is what is going to influence the outcome of the competition. Now, women didn't have that same selection
45:49pressure. Their pressure was more working within the confines or so forth of these institutions and involved developing a more intimate network of relationships that provide social support. A lot of these networks are focused on consensus, agreement, support, and so forth. And they're not hierarchical. Hierarchical is frowned upon in these female networks. So they try to level out each other, and they're focused on the dynamics within it rather than coordinating together to compete against another group. So then when you take bunches of females, when they begin to dominate, this has been talked about recently, social media and elsewhere, move into these male systems that are hierarchical, organized for out-group competition, not coordinating in-group behavior,
47:05so that their collective actions will make them all better at outdoing this other group. And so there's a lot of confusion and consternation, arguments, and so forth over that dynamic right now. But I think it's real and explains a lot of uh current social issues why is that unpalatable for a lot of people um well because uh there are a lot of women who are now competing in traditionally male hierarchies, male professions, so forth. And they're designed to function hierarchically, collective action, and so forth. Women generally don't like that type of social dynamic and system. And so they, you know, they do something else, but it creates problems because a subset of women are work focused and status focused about 15% or
48:15so. Um, and they're directly competing against men in these hierarchies. And a lot of them aren't doing as well as they think they should do. And so they're looking at the status differentials between the most successful men and the most successful women, and there's still gaps there. And so they come up with post hoc explanations like bias, systematic sexism, and so forth. But the differences are really men are more focused on status they're willing to trade off friends health and so forth to move with status and they more easily join together uh collectively to finish um common goals and projects or whatever but we're female groups are less efficient at that. What about the desire for control? I never really thought about this as a fundamental human motivation, but you seem to think that it is.
49:12So I use a history, a kind of rule of thumb heuristic that we have a fundamental motivation to control. And that doesn't mean you want to be Hitler or Genghis Khan or whatever. But it means that you want to organize your world in ways that reproduce the outcomes that increase social status previously, reproductive opportunities, and so forth. So the things that help the human brain evolve, so status-related competition, for example, you want to recreate those conditions. So you want to move up a status hierarchy. Or if you're a woman, you want to create a network, social network that will provide social support for you, help with your kids, sometimes economic support or whatever. So you want to organize your world and control it in a sense that you're recreating the same networks
50:32that led to the evolution of these systems. Now, I think of it in terms of kind of concentric rings. Some people, they just want to control their day-to-day life, their job, what happens at the job, what happens with their friends and networks. And then other folks, you get Hitler, Genghis Khan, other despots, want to control the world. It's just the scope of that, which means they want to organize the world at whatever scope it is in ways that are beneficial to them. So control is I am able to change the environment and the future to disproportionately benefit me versus other people? Yeah, pretty much. It is you want to organize the world. So social relationships, for example, who's friends with who, who you're friends with, what's going on
51:35in this network. You're going to put energy into moderating or curating those relationships so the pattern fits what's in your best interest. They pay attention to you over other women, for example, when you need it. And if it doesn't happen, you get angry or upset or whatever, which triggers the default mode network and these other networks that kick in the problem solving. It's like, okay, yeah, things aren't quite right. What do I need to change? How do I need to interact with this network in order to realign things so that it's now working best for me? Tell me if this sounds familiar. You train regularly, you eat reasonably well, you feel fine, but you're just kind of going off vibes. Most people have absolutely no idea what's going on
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53:08Get the exact same blood panels that I use and save $25 by going to the link in the description below or heading to functionhealth.com slash modern wisdom. That's functionhealth.com slash modern wisdom. Are humans ever truly satisfied with the amount of control that they have? Or will we always want more? things that, you know, there is and has been a very clear relation between social status and mortality risks of you and your kids. So moving up the status hierarchy, men and women, increased your chances of survival and increased the chances of your kids surviving, especially when shit hits a fan. There's a plague or a food shortage or something like that. The relation between mortality risk and status is inverse. Higher, the better. And
54:19when shit hits a fan, it's unpredictable. you don't know when another group is going to invade typically you don't know when uh you know another plague or whatever is going to hit you don't know what the growing season is going to be and so forth so you can't relax it's a kind of a you know and you get this within species arms race so you've always got to move up a little bit as protection, as a buffer against when the bottom falls out. And so I think that's why people are so obsessed with social comparisons. A lot of social media is flaunting, showing off. And then people are comparing themselves to others. And we have the self-aware, I think that drove self-awareness to some point. I know this competency, A, B,
55:13and C, and these other people are getting them higher up in whatever status hierarchies is important to you. And then you need self-awareness to reflect on your own skills on those same traits and think about, okay, well, how do I improve those so that I too can move up a bit? Most of us live very comfortable lives, at least in the Western world. A lot of resources, not much relative to what we had historically, not much violence. So in absolute terms, things are great. We should be just kicking back, watching TV, playing video games, or whatever. And some people are able to do that, but a lot just can't turn it off and it's because of the relation between uh status and mortality risk and the unpredictability of
56:12when the population will crash again and ancestrally that would have been very adaptive and we it doesn't really matter whether or not you're feeling satisfied or or at peace as you go to bed tonight what matters is whether or not you're driven enough to keep on pushing forward. I mean, it's kind of surprising to me, to be honest, that passive pleasure is something that exists at all. But the fact that we are able to be as partially happy in non-pursuit as some humans are is kind of amazing it's like wow you really threaded the needle through this minefield of evolutionary pressures to if it's anything other you know there's a common productivity wisdom which is hey, make sure that you don't just use your rest time as
57:07a foot off the gas in service of putting your foot back on the gas even harder tomorrow, right? You should be going for a walk because you enjoy going for a walk and it fulfills you, not because you listen to an Andrew Huberman podcast episode that suggests that it means that you are 15% more productive tomorrow if you go for a walk this evening, something like that. But if you look at the evolutionary pressures, everything should be pushing us towards survival and reproduction, whether that's intergroup conflict or intra-group status seeking, whether it's resource gathering or social game playing or skill acquisition or weapon development or whatever. Everything is in service of that because we had to negotiate for almost all of human history, really, really aggressively
57:50negotiate with an environment that was uncivil, uncivilized, out of our control. Heat could have killed us. Cold could have killed us. We didn't know if there was going to be a famine. The fact that we're able to just in small micro doses chill and just be happy kind of blows that's the most amazing thing of all of this do you not agree yeah yeah well i mean you have to even when you're pushing hard you have to recuperate um you need recuperation times if you work you know if you're physically doing a lot of labor whatever fighting whatever you need to pull back and recuperate to, you know, you're going to deplete resources, mental resources, physical resources or whatever. So you need these break periods for your body mentally to recuperate.
58:36And I think that's what you're getting at. Some people just have larger recuperation periods, you know, sometimes decades, they just take it slow. But that's true in other species as well. So northern elephant seals, for example, a lot of intense male-male competition. Five, 10% of the males sire most of the offspring. Some of the males just don't compete. They're slackers. They hang out on the beach they live longer than the other males um you know they you know don't reap but but there's going to be some of those in every generation that just kind of either can't compete or don't want to put the effort into it or just want to take advantage of the here and now whatever's available if you were to assess the successful people in the modern world,
59:26the ones that we look to and think, wow, their ambition and competence has really driven them to do amazing, impressive things. How likely do you think it would be that the traits that made that person successful in this environment would be the same ones that would make them successful 50,000 or 100,000 years ago yeah yeah right great question so yeah so when we get larger societies we get kind of different types of classes and hierarchies the main ones have been talked about i said before military political entrepreneurial and ideological um certainly is the military type of of uh class and probably in cooperation with the political class that had the earlier advantages you know with rome and other early empires those are the people that dominated things. As a society grows, you get more entrepreneurial folks, ideological folks. You get the Roman Empire, kind of an empire at some point that has a lot of social influence.
1:00:36Social complexity, right. And then the entrepreneurial class raises up and they become wealthier. And so now they want to compete with the political class for social power and so forth. And you see these groups competing. So in China, as I understand it, the political class kind of keeps the entrepreneurial class and even the military class in check to maintain their power here in the u.s you know it's more of a capitalistic and the entrepreneurial class is very wealthy and therefore much more influential than in other empires where um the political class kept them down but the entrepreneurial class or the um you know entertainment class i guess that's part of the you know entrepreneurial stuff so you know i like the rolling stones uh mick jagger and stuff but
1:01:32my guess is he wouldn't last long on a medieval battlefield yeah i get the sense too it seems like yeah it's a it's a unique um it's more precise it's more civilized it's going to be more about uh non-violent competition uh you're going to need to be much more socially aware complexity what does this person want um interpersonal communication is going to be way more i get the sense that maybe even like pro-sociality and extroversion might be a little bit more important because people can they don't need you from a resource gathering perspective quite so much maybe in the past you would have put up with an asshole it was really great with a spear because you go, oh, hey, wait. Yeah, sure, he's a dick.
1:02:27But if we piss him off too much, the next time that we need some meat, we're screwed. Or the next time that the tribe comes along, we're screwed. But when you outsource that to a supermarket and law enforcement, you think, I don't really need that in quite the same way that I used to. Yeah, it's really fascinating. And this is, it's mismatch. And we're talking about mismatch, evolutionary mismatch, but it's coming at it from a really interesting angle, which is what would have been adaptive from a group perspective and an individual competency perspective that now is repurposed or warped. There's this meme I always think about. It's a guy who is working in retail, young dude, like really, really big,
1:03:09like jack guy, looks like he was maybe a football player in college or something, with a shirt and a tie on, kind of a shit shirt and a tie on, stood at the front of a bed, bath, and beyond. And the caption above it was, 15,000 years ago, I would have been a proud warrior. And this pivot from a brain-based, a broad-based to a brain-based economy, increased social, all this stuff is, I know it's just, I would love to see what happens if we could create another virtual reality, just pick everybody up, drop them in it and be like, how does everyone get on? Like, is Elon Musk that just driven and competent and flexible and tyrannical and megalomaniacal that he is able to still win? Or does the fact that he doesn't have this capacity
1:03:56mean that he doesn't so much? It's pretty unique. Yeah, well, yeah, yeah. He's in a kind of a mix of an entrepreneurial and technological kind of hierarchy. So he's able to mix them together and almost certainly is using a lot of the default mode in the frontal parietal networks to think about things in new ways, electric cars, or try to do existing technologies better so he's you know the ambition but he's also using these very complex evolved systems to try to think through better ways to do you know whatever abc um he's focusing on in the time now going back 50 000 years 100 000 years 200000 years, 200,000 years, people like him would have been the ones inventing the new tools, the new weapons and stuff. Maybe
1:04:53not on the front line, but the technological advances were a critical piece of where we are now. It's a human coalitional formation, the between group, social competition, and the technology. The male-based coalitional between group and the technology. Take away any of those and we're not here. Before we continue, how many times have you found yourself hugging the toilet, throwing up, not because you drank too much alcohol, but because the non-alcoholic beers that you drank tasted like garbage? And that is why I'm such a huge fan of Athletic Brewing Co. Their non-alcoholic brews taste just as good as the real thing. And the best part, there's no hangover, no headaches, no more ruining your daughter's dance recital. I didn't want to stop enjoying tasty drinks.
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1:06:20quality of life or their understanding of themselves and the world around them? Yeah. Yeah. I think a lot of what people do is driven by kind of unconscious or their feelings about, you know, so-and-so's got more than I do and it's making me feel bad and so forth. And so I need to go out and up her or up him often by spending extra money and paying a lot of interest on it and, uh, you know, going into debt and so forth. So that's based on this kind of the status driving, uh, need that we have to kind of move up the ladder before the bottom of the ladder gets cut out. But, you know, we live in a, but it's good to understand where we live. We live in a place and time where those risks are much lower than they were when that system
1:07:19to continuously move up was in place. So understanding that and reflecting that, yeah, you know, they have this, but really what do I need for my personal wellbeing? And those are my kids. So you get these competitions for, you know, getting your kid super good at baseball or whatever, you know, unless they're going to go to pros, it's really not that important or the PTA moms, they go in and they, you know, organize things in the middle school and high school and their kids just by chance happen to get the most awards and all of that. Um, in traditional societies, the PTA moms did help their kids. It mattered, you know, in a middle school today, you're putting all this effort It mattered. In a middle school today,
1:08:05you're putting all this effort into it, probably a lot of drama, a lot of time and work and all that. In the long run, we know it doesn't make any difference for your kid anymore. So you can chill a bit. That would be nice. David Geary, ladies and gentlemen. David, I appreciate you. Where should people go to check out the Substack, the everything you got going on yeah so the the sub stack i i initially just had a bunch of reprints from a number of articles mostly on sex differences um that i uh published in corlett they gave me permission to redo them and now i'm redoing uh origin of mind which will take another year or so to finish but along the way i have a few um uh posts here and there i'll have them on
1:08:53certain topics as i work through them on the chapters chapters will be much more elaborated more evidence and so forth so have snippets oh yeah yeah uh just a very uh kind of innovative name geary substack that's there i've got dozens of uh subscribers already so it's blossoming did you also want to talk about the great divergence or maybe some other time yeah we're gonna have to do that another time but dude dude, I'm always super down to talk to you. So we can run that back. I think it's fascinating to have an ancestral perspective on why human brains sort of developed the way that they did. It really helps to explain what's going on with human behavior. What's happening with the second edition of the book?
1:09:41What's going on with that? Yeah, so I've got through a few chapters uh there i'm actually i'll hear from my publisher american psychological association if they're actually going to publish it or not um i think probably they will but who knows um and so i'll move on next chapter will be on um uh the development the brain, prenatal development and kind of neurobiological organization to it. Basically saying, you know, there's no way it's a blank slate. You know, the only place you get a blank slate is academic social scientists. Otherwise, it's there. So I'll present that evidence, probably pare it back a little bit from first edition. Then I'll have either that second after that chapter or basic single chapter on big brain networks like the default load network. I'll get into and talk about things like problem solving, self-awareness, that sort of thing.
1:10:46And then toward the end, I'm going to integrate all of this with domain general intelligence, which a lot of people wonder about. The ability to easily learn novel information and the ability to draw inferences about kind of basic patterns and stuff. We'll talk about that. And then in a final chapter, the relation between domain general abilities, maybe the default mode network and others in the modern world and occupational performance, creative innovation, so forth. Heck yeah. David, I appreciate you, man. Until next time. All right. Thank you. Enjoyed it. All right. Thank you. Enjoyed it. It's getting chilly outside. But you know what that means? It's time to cozy up with Panera Bread. Let's get toasty.
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